People are usually underestimate baby’s ability of understanding adult’s talking. Most experts including pediatrics are suggesting that when talking to your baby you should keep your talk simple. Well I have a totally different opinion.
I recommend parents should talk to their baby just like talking to anyone. Baby may not understand each and every word you are saying. But unconsciously baby will be able to grasp the meaning. Because the language ability is at the conscious level, while the meaning of what you say (I call it information) can be accepted at the subconscious level.
Especially for baby, the conscious mind has not been completely developed, which means the subconscious mind is totally open to the outside world. Not like an adult, who has developed conscious mind which decides his thinking. The conscious mind works like a shield or a filter around the subconscious mind. Any information will be processed or filtered by the conscious mind. From one point of view, we are more protected because our conscious mind will only allow information which we are willing to accept. From another point of view, we can hardly change our subconscious mind which ultimately decides our fate--live or die, emotionally strong or weak, succeed or fail, rich or poor.
It is critical to build a healthy and successful subconscious mind. And the best time to build it was when we were baby. So be careful of what you are talking to your baby. He will become what you told him to be. Please always talk positively not negatively. Please only talk about what you want. Never mention anything you don’t like or want.
Since my son was born, I talked to him a lot during feeding time, before bed time, or even during sleep. I said to my baby: I know you are a smart guy. You are healthy all the time. You have many friends who like you, admire you, follow you. You are a good leader. You are very sociable. People like you very much. You have a successful life.
My baby is at preschool age. He is three and a half years old now. He is very strong and healthy and seldom sick. My families, friends, his teachers, his classmates and even strangers like him at the moment they saw him. They always said to me that my son is so lovely and so smart. He makes friends quickly. He likes to tell others what to say and what to do like a leader.
He becomes whom I was telling him to be. I am willing to believe that. How about you?
Dec 18, 2007
Talking to Your Baby Differently
Dec 16, 2007
Download A Successful Self Image From The Future, How?
An old Chinese saying says: 人靠衣装，佛靠金装。(in Pinyin) Ren Kao Yi Zhuang, Fo Kao Jin Zhuang (Translation by meaning) Fine feather makes find bird. It also means that people are usually judged by what he or she is wearing. Although it is true in some cases, it ignored one very important thing- the Inner Personal Image which decided by people's mind and soul. I figure out a way to change self image by downloading it from the future. I will tell you how.
It can be told by every movement and every blink whether the person is confident, honest, kind, generous or not. I always heard someone saying that the salesman was not trustable. Not because that sales person was not wearing a suit and tie. It's because of his unsuccessful inner personal image. How to build a successful personal image so that people will trust you and like you the moment they saw you?
The ONLY way to build a successful personal image is to set up or change to a higher self image. Science and psychology have isolated the one prime cause of the results you get in your life: the hidden image you hold of yourself, which is known as self image. This self image operates like the thermostat in your home. Once your image is set, your life is on course to produce the physical manifestation of the mental image you hold. If you want others to trust you, you have to trust yourself first. A person who is lack of confident, has no big dreams or has low self esteem does not earn anybody’s trust, including himself.
Now you may think: “Are you telling me to take a year round self development course which costs hundreds or even thousands dollars? I have spent too much money on that. It’s so hard to build so called winner’s image. It will work in maybe 1year, 2years or even 5 years. But I couldn’t afford wasting any time or any money. I want the change right now!”
The truth is if you really what to change, you can change it right away. I figure out a way which makes me change easily and quickly. I call it “downloading”. You can download the successful self image from the future. How?
Have you seen those science fiction movies talking about time machine? People can travel back and forth from the future. Even though the physical body cannot travel through the time as far as today’s science discovers, your mind or spirit can. If I ask you to think of the future, you can think of it in no second. So, imagine you are not current you anymore. You are that successful person in the future. You enjoy a wonderful life: big house, nice car, good relationship, happy family, wonderful career. You are healthy, wealthy and of course confident. You have such a high self image. Now, download that self image into your current physical body. What will you do and what will you say in your higher self image point of view? Of course you will act differently and think differently. Your higher self image already knows you will be successful in the future. It just travels back to the past and lead your body to achieve it. No doubt about it. Your body will then cooperate with the higher self image. That way you change your current personal image into a successful higher self image.
Dec 13, 2007
Be Creative and Have Fun
My son seems to be interested in music and songs a lot. He is always singing songs he learnt from school. One day I sang "Jingel Bell", he asked me to sing it dozens of times. So I searched the internet and download it so that he could listen to it as many times as he wants.
We got him a colorful toy piano when he was one year old. These days he was trying play "Jingel Bell" on his toy piano. I knew he could not figure out by himself how to play it correctly. He didn't even know Do-Re-Mi.
Suddenly an idea came to my mind. I created a score by drawing colorful dots according to the notes of the song. Each dot represents one piano key of the same color. First I showed him how to play according to my score. Now he can easily play it. We both have a lot of fun!
Stop talking or thinking about what you do Not want, Why??
Did you ever wondering why you are so unlucky? Why you are still struggling for life? Why you couldn't get something you ever wished for? Why??
I may not have the answer to your specific questions. However I find the tool-- The Secret. Did you tell the universe what you really want? I had tried and it works.
You may already see The Secret movie. You may or may not try it. I tried and it is really working. Before I saw The Secret, I never seriously thought about what kind of life I want. I just spent my life day by day just like most people do. Now I can focus on what I really want no matter how difficult the fact looks right now. Most people look on the current situation (fact) to make a choise or decision. Well, it is not wrong, but it will limit what you will get. You will never get more than you expected. If you expected something bad, chances are you will get it. Or maybe you never admit so. You said you were just afraid of something bad happen. But you didn't realize you actually expect bad things.
People's thoughts are also one kind of things. Like energy, thought can be materialized into physical world. Unfortunately 95% of people never think. 3% of people think they think. Only 2% really think. This 2% of people are the most successful people in the world. Because they actively think what they want and they never think or talk about what they do not want.
Most people couldn't get what they want only because they wish positively and think negatively. So you should be very careful about what you are thinking. Everything has two sides. When you focus on the good side, the bad side will never show up. Just like a coin. You are never able to see two sides at the same time.
So next time do not complain anything, do believe everything is good. Feel your appreciation inside and you will get more and more good things.
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